Saturday, March 03, 2007

Like fighting with air.
Doctors are not my favourite people in general...having said that one very good friend of ours is a Doctor, but a doctor who doesn't follow blindly what the AMA push...what they seem to push with thehelp of the Pharmaceutical companies is not health but a state of fear and dependence that is anything but healthy. There is no money in healthy people and no money in dead ones...I am allowing that those doctors who are exceptions to this rule are some of the world's best people.

We've had some dreadful innings with the medical establishment, in the past ...too long and sdisturbing to go into and too boring also...

Last week I wrote to my husband's GP (with Don's okay)

"26/2/07
Attn, Dr. S... (son of a bitch perhaps???)
Since late last year I have noticed Don's increasing tiredness and shortness of breath. Other people have commented on this as it is a visible thing. Considering Don's heart condition and his restricted breathing due to Quadaplegia this has been a real concern.

Don complained about this at his last visit with you (mid Jan.) and you told Don you didn't think it could be connected with his heart condition.

A friend of ours is a physiotherapist and she said that his breathing should have rung alarm bells with his doctor.

After that visit with you Don faxed in all the material you asked him to send to Dr GW (he is a sleep apnoea person), soon after his visit with you. When he rang last week to find out why Dr GW had not contacted him he was told by the receptionist that the doctor had not looked at the faxed material yet.

Don then saw Dr R (Urologist) and was booked in to have a Cystosophy on 28 Feb.

Today while having a pre op ultrasound the Radiographer saw a fair amount of fluid in the right lung.

Since Christmas Don has been unable to breathe properly and unable to see the Heart Specialist till May 5th.

By then...what?

His lungs filling up with fluid would possibly suggest a problem with the heart as there is no chest infection.

We are disappointed he has been left like this for so long.

Fluid has to be drained from Don's lung to enable him to breathe properly.

Not on May 5th please...
(End letter)

I woke up Wednesday 28th morning at 4am unable to sleep wondering how to get to someone who would start Don's treatment and so faxed this letter to the heart specialist Dr K

"Dear Dr. K,
My husband Don is a patient of yours and saw you for the first time mid 2006. You wanted to see him again in January 2007, but unable to get an appointment till May 2007.

He is a Quadriplegic and has been since 1982. You would have his records but this might save time. He has limited breathing and an inability to cough effectively or to vomit due to Quadriplegia. We have managed to avoid any lung congestion in this whole time and Don has only once had flu, which didn’t settle, and it cleared up.

Since about September last year it has become noticeable that Don was having trouble getting his words finished because of constant shortness of breath and was growing increasingly tired. People commented on this because you could see his shoulders having to go up and down…you would know what I mean.

About a month back Don went to his GP but was told it wasn’t to do with the heart (?)

Some days are better, but most days Don has trouble finishing breakfast, and is sleeping longer and longer.


When Don had an Ultra sound (Monday) on his kidneys pre a day surgery to look at the bladder, the radiographer saw the bottom of Don's right hand side lung and said, "there's a lot of fluid there"

I suspected this because Don sounded like my mother when her lungs also had fluid build up from heart disease.

So the day surgery is off thank God. For him to have had any surgery with fluid on his already compromised lungs would have been a dreadful risk.

A chest X Ray which I can drop in to you if you request showed up the fluid on the right lung (Don sleeps on his right side…so he can sleep; he can’t sleep on his back and too painful for too long on his left).

What is worrying us both is that yet another weekend is coming along and the fluid will continue to build up. Last weekend Don felt too tired and weak to do more than wake up and eat between sleeps but got a little better in the evenings. That was the worst… Monday and Tuesday were a little better.
Irealise I am stepping outside the protocol and hope you will understand this.

If I stand back and do nothing, and my husband dies …I can’t contemplate this.

Don would most likely not survive any complications of fluid on the lungs such as Pneumonia – he can’t cough.

Please when you have time get back to us on this and I ask you respect confidentiality of this fax as Don has a good relationship with his GP. but nothing seems to be moving along."

he did at least look at the X Rays...and suggest a CT scan...which no one has bothered to look at...

in between this Don's GP had replied promptly to defend his Honour...but did not address the fluid which can cause major problems... honour is important to defend I suppose.


27/2/07
Dear Don and Therese,
"I am sorry you do not feel Don has been treated appropriately. Certainly shortness of breath is a concern and requires investigation. On reveiwing the notes from our last consultation I not that most of the discussion centered around fatigue and sleepiness for which I gave him a referral to Dr GW.... (not true...shortness of breath was mentioned ..but once the good Doc centered on Sleep apnoea he wouldn't be stopped) We also discussed the bleeding from his bladder and had a long discussion about his dry mouth (duh!!) and medications. Don has complex medical issues (hm we know this!) and our consultations alwayd cover a multitude of issues. I had certainly not realised that difficulties breathing were a concern of this magnitude based on our recent meetings . (It was visible and a quick listen with a stethescope would have found it).

I have looked back through Don's file and Dr K (heart specialist)'s letter from last July suggesting he see Don again in 6 months, about now. I provided Don with a referral regarding this in August last year, plenty of time to make an appropriate appointment. I will fax Dr K's rooms asking if a more urgent one is available but have no final control over their bookings. This is the same with Dr GW.

(get this next bit)
...unfortunately I will be away for approximately 4 weeks at some stage in the near future.... (the very next day as it turned out...)"


Isn't that just wonderful?

As Don is not well a fair amount of time is spent at home so I replied asap so the good Doc S.O.B. would get the letter before his holiday...

28th Feb 2007

"Dear Dr SOB,
We have learned by years of experience that one has to be proactive when it comes to dealing with health problems. We are very sorry if you felt your professionalism as to Don’s treatment was being questioned. This was not the case. It was just the telling of an experience by way of providing information which is a good thing.

Don was less than a day from Theatre and apart from the Radiologist spotting the fluid on his lung he would be in there today which could have had a drastic outcome.

A Chest X Ray was done yesterday on Dr R’s referral. He would have those results.

Don had seen three Doctors, yourself and the two specialists and all had to observe the manner of his breathing but until Don himself asked the anaesthesiatist Dr Mc ( after being alerted to the fluid by the radiologist) no one listened to his chest. The fluid would have been heard by listening or by percussion. Don’s limited breathing at the best of times and his obvious shortness of breath would mean that this is always going to be a problem, without anything else.

Re Don’s appointment with Dr. Kark –

Don was asked by Dr Kark to make an appointment with him for late Jan. 2007 but he was specifically asked not to ring to make it till December… then he was given an appointment of May 5th. This was not Don’s fault, as he did as he was asked.

Don is just trying to get treated and in his case, he cannot afford to have fluid like this on his lungs and that is the most important thing.

Re DR Williams, we understand we have to wait to get in but he would not have known how urgent it was because he had not looked at the referral and medication list etc we had faxed some time back.

Please don’t take offence at this letter, as none is intended. We would like to continue the good relationship we have with you as you have an understanding of what Don needs and this takes time on both sides to build up. As stated this is intended as only to inform you.

P.S The referral for the CT Scan came through as a blank page last night."

I would have liked to gotten really nasty as I just bloody hate these unctuous bastards...they kill people and stay smiling and cool! I don't think most of you would have any idea how much I so totally hate them and the sick system they serve. They generally do not serve us at all and have so much arrogance it is sickening.

We are no closer to getting the fluid drained as its now the weekend we just have to hope we can get things going on Monday...

People say to me sometimes "who is your doctor? " I tell them why do I need a doctor for, I am as healthy as a horse and plan to stay that way if I can. If I need something I pick a name out and go for it. I don't have to like them, too many of us likt to imagine the kindly doc smiling down on our poor suffering heads... crap. Its when they smile at you and get that high priesty look on their faces that you need to be scared.

So thats last week. My poor bloody cat Archimedes is dying in front of me...she is very old and I hope the poor thing goes when I am with her...she's not suffering too much and knows me...she looks comfortable having her long sleeps. Shit.

And yet I am not sad about all of this... there will be time for that. LIfe is good while you have got it, and a lot of funny things happen, like last week when Don said to me,
"Do you want to know what my GP said to me at the last visit?" I said yes of course.
"It might upset you." I said theres not much anyone can do or say that will upset me these days...

He said" Dr S... said 'And Don just how long do you think (emphasis) you're going to live?' "

Bloody little pukey little prick! I roared with laughter and next thing we both were laughing our gizzrds out... Don with not as much blow as me...

I said or maybe he'll get hit by a Mack truck.

Happy holiday Dr Son of a bitch.


14 comments:

Cazzie!!! said...

It pisses me off when "people" overlook such obvious in-your-face problems and do not act appropriately!!!!
Your letters were so well written, I commend you on this.
Are you able to get your husband to an Emergency Department? We get alot of these lung congestion problems through the door and the appropriate specialists are called in an theie lungs are drained within a matter of 24 hours.
Of course the lungs inefficiency can be a result of the heart having problems, duh, dumb doctor!!!
I hope this gets resolved really really soon. Your precious husband will feel so good after the lung has been drained.

Middle Child said...

Thanks sooo much Cazzie...this is what we are planning on Monday/tues depending on Don and how he feels...we are going to organise the dog and poor bloody cat and have all his tabs in a bag...and just front up faking a herat attack or something...trouble is we have caused the MD's a lot of trouble over things we have done... we are activists or were in the past...fought the AMA on the privatisation of Port Macquarie Base Hospital...its now back in public hands...Don was the Secretary and publicity officer of the Hospital Action group (I took the minutes and almost went to jail once during a protest...(we are in a National party area...say no more) and we embarrassed the local MS's no end when that was on... we have called them out on fluoridation often...Don and I are or were before this, pretty vocal...

and I may be a drama queen but I suspect they would be happy to see Don and I in trouble...but think Don's GP is too stupid for this...

trouble is much of Don's meds are "on authority" such as Physeptone - Methadone which he uses to control the dreadful pain he experiences.... it is only this clinic which is authorised in our area to prescribe this medication, without which Don would be in too much pain to get out of bed...his hip ones are shot and can be replaced..also sitting on a dislocated hip which can't be fixed... wich he could access the milk of human kindness from these bastards and hope there is a justice in the next world.

JahTeh said...

Mum's doctor went on a five week holiday without letting us know although he gave her file to a doctor at the clinic. I finally figured out we were talking cross purposes when he mentioned right breast mastectomy when it was the left. The letter was from Monash Breast Clinic with mum's name and address but someone else's condition. With her own doctor I could have sorted it out but someone who's just reading a file is a different matter especially when I'm trying to get a morphine script.

Sling said...

You know what they call the guy that finished last in his class at medical school?..."Doctor"..
I'm so sorry you guys have to endure this kind of thing.

rosemary said...

I was an RN for all of my professional life....and I was a professional. Most of the docs I worked with were also professionals, but that was a long time ago. I see a doc now that is my son's age and would be quite happy to just write a script for yet another pill and happily shuffle me out the door. It is about the bottom line, the almighty dollar and how much they can get back for saving the insurance company or the government $$$. It is about how many patients they can cram into a day and see them for as short a time as possible. It is about CYA. Thank gawd Don has you to be his champion. You are a wonder.

Mirk said...

The boyo here ;0) I'm not fond of SOB either, and it's just the same in this country. You have to be as knolageable as the SOB or they end up killing you. My aunt who has had a kidney transplant 10 years ago has to look after her husband who has MS, she constantly has to sort the SOB out before they make a mistake.

Middle Child said...

jahteh - makes one feel like doing something really bad. I only hope that there is a real Hell for these buggers later on.

Middle Child said...

Sling...Ahm sooo glad I didn't marry a doctor...I'd much rather my open minded and curious (in many ways) backhoe operator, pipe layer, trench digger... and big hearted carer of my sisters in their troubles...

Like when mu mum needed things done (before Don's accident) he climed up on rooves, did useful things in the yard etc etc...few doctors would ever do fot their mother in law... we just supplied him with cups of tea, when it was beer he was dreaming about...

I'd have gone mad with a dumb doc as a husband

Middle Child said...

Rosemary... you saw the best of it - hospitals these days are all filthy... no one scrubs any more...I was a hospital cleaner once and we scrubbed, but were also paid well and treated decently...

Don's doc is a dumb arrogant prick...nothing else

Middle Child said...

Your aunt and uncle deserve medals and justice because we have a good idea of the stupidity they have had to fight, as I said " Like fighting with air."

jin said...

What a terrible experience!

I am hoping the best for you & Don!

I can't stand doctors either. I have lost too many wonderful customers to them. *sigh*

JahTeh said...

I must say that our family doctor and surgeon for 25 years, before he passed on was the best of the best and so we were thoroughly spoiled for any doctor afterwards.
He sat down and with two finger typing (old typewriter) gave us all of Dad's medical records for years to try and help us get him the TPI. The only people he didn't like were the ones that didn't help themselves and he never turned down a home visit to an elderly patient.
Rosemary is right about the cleaning but my sister, a Div 2 nurse doesn't mind getting stuck in with the milton and the white king. It was how she was trained and she never wears gloves just doing her ordinary work, she washes her hands constantly. Some nurses think the gloves are for their protection not the patients.

Middle Child said...

Thanks Jin and Jahteh

GoAwayPlease said...

Cazzies suggestion of Casualty is a good one.

Re the pets: I wish I could fly in and mind them for you but have you thought of trying

housecarers.com a housesitting website.
Housesitters don't get paid and you deserve to be lucky and find somebody near to care for archimedes.

much love